abc001
发表于 2016-5-14 20:12
人渣!!!!!想办法拿光他的钱跟小孩远走高飞!要不就留下他出轨的证据,离婚都能分多点家产
静静的河流
发表于 2016-5-14 20:13
太可怕了。怎么去菲律宾的男人都这样子啊。我以后不想在菲律宾找了。太太可怕了。
静静的河流
发表于 2016-5-14 20:14
楼主。自力更生啊。切记切记。一定要懂得赚钱。千万别呆在家里呆小孩。那样你会被社会抛弃的。还有要懂点投资自己啊。不然会被男人抛弃。:33:}:33:}
k7lIoughSu
发表于 2016-5-14 20:17
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人渣!!!!!想办法拿光他的钱跟小孩远走高飞!要不就留下他出轨的证据,离婚都能分多点家产 ...
太谢谢,由于我当初看重的感情已不在了,没钱一心图这菲律宾女人玩过无数了,现在欠债也被威胁,反正如今我除了痛恨还是痛恨,之前有人告诉我帮我报警与挺我的人都被他讲了,很多时候死的心无数,毕竟二十年人生才几个,最怕孩子小很无奈!
k7lIoughSu
发表于 2016-5-14 20:19
静静的河流 发表于 2016-5-14 20:14 static/image/common/back.gif
楼主。自力更生啊。切记切记。一定要懂得赚钱。千万别呆在家里呆小孩。那样你会被社会抛弃的。还有要懂点投 ...
我也不是所有的事自己做,早就让他喝西北风了,爱合作又没分红!
kabX6DsnI2
发表于 2016-5-15 00:28
你越忍受,越助长他的嚣张,婚姻是需要幸福的,为了孩子你要忍受多久,孩子大懂事会理解的,离开他,永远都不要回来。
Jamesgan1987
发表于 2016-5-16 13:03
分财产呗直接离开呗
洪律师
发表于 2016-5-30 18:43
I am sorry to see what you have gone through.My advice would be, save those photos and if you have undergone medical check up, also keep those files.
Should there be risk of relapse, i suggest you look for a lawyer and prepare a case for VAWC or Violence against women and children against your husband.You can just file the case so that there is a record of violence with the nbi or police or you may want the court to issue a Temporary Protection Order or TPO.The TPO is a court order barring your husband from coming near your place of residence or where you are, by a distance of say how many hundreds of meters.
But the long term solution maybe to file a legal separation case against your husband.
rebecca0826
发表于 2016-6-12 03:04
发生这样的事情,你心里对你先生已经心灰意冷了,你现在最担心的,是孩子的问题..孩子看到这一切,他能懂你为何离开的。回国也能独自把孩子带大,向男方索取赡养费,虽然这样比较辛苦,但也会比现在过得快乐。保留你先生出轨的证据,还有家暴的证据,验伤证明,回国办离婚的话,夫妻共同财产分配你能获得大部分,他也必须付赡养费直至孩子成年后,共同抚养孩子是他的义务,是受法律保护的。对于孩子来说,看到你受伤害,看到爸爸这样对你,他心里也会有变化的。离开那个男人,对于你和孩子,都是好事。如果你爱孩子,请不要再让你自己,还有你的孩子受伤害了。你心里肯定也不愿把孩子丢给他,毕竟这种素质的男人,打孩子可能也做得出来。如果你对这样的男人还有一丝丝的眷恋,我只能祈祷上帝会保佑你。你要好好想清楚了..好好想想以后自己要怎么抉择,怎么走以后的路。希望你早日摆脱这样的生活,跟孩子开心快乐的生活。
洪律师
发表于 2016-6-15 16:28
Keep those pictures and medical records. You can sue your partner for violence against women and children or under the VAWC law. You may also request for a Protection Order from the court. In any case, report an incident like this to the police immediately so that they can arrest the other party who is doing this to you. Do not procrastinate!